Sunday, January 8, 2012

The key of freedom ♥

Lets start my brand new year with my key of freedom, btw, Happy New Year, matey! Pretty hope im not late for this new year greeting : D
Can't believe im blogging this now, was supposed to be a last year post, and i was thinking just abandon it, but em just stupid excited for this, 2 of my 21st birthday present!!! muahahaaa, i know, is damn late since my birthday is on Sept!!!

lets the story began, honestly,  em just getting my 21st gold key last month.

Mum decided to gift me a gold key as one of my b'day present from her. I always wanted a rose gold key instead of those tacky gold key or common white gold, rose gold gives a rose, pink color on the jewellery, though rose gold is still not that common in M'sia.

We visited quite a number of jewellery stores, i still couldn't get the one i fond on at my first sight, so i rather wait until i discovered the one i fond on.
When every time when we passed by jewellery store, mum will stop over and have a look with those pendants, but im too fastidious, didn't fancy any one of them.
Then after, there was a day, me and mum headed down to 313@somerset, which are now one of my favourite shopping mall, we both saw this rose gold key with a star pendant, it is so dazzling. And so i made my choice at the first glance. I know otherwise mum will get me another one, which is also the latest xmas collection, an angel pendant as mum said im a white angel. LOL i admit what she said. =P

nice gift pack from SK Jewellery

 here comes the pendant :>
so lovey and nicey, don't you think so?

4 tiny diamonds on the star with a cutey rose gold key hanging on.

Besides, the coming one it came even more earlier than the key pendant.
A Alana Heart Charm from Swarovski, 21st bday gift from my beloved hubby, chosen by me and with the helps of mum, this's even glittering. you can either wear is as a pendant or with ur bracelet. :)


i was searching this before at pavilion KL, but the choice of charm are lesser which compare to here.
heart this so much too :>

again, thanks pretty much to my beloved mummy and boyfie for the gift. :D superb loving it.


 hmmm...seriously feel my language skill and writing skill are leewaying...... gawdness :( madly upset.
maybe i shall talk more and blog more in order to keep it up. tsk tsk tsk.

em fell in love with the Garrett popcorn recently, just got one more bag ytd, simply tasty yummy :)
em was searching for a pair of kitty utensil,  now finally, but seems like kinda huge for me.
see how big the utensil it is, compare with my i-touch, doubled size.
im gonna to use it, not kidding :D will bring it to work everyday cos hosp's food court only provided disposable chopstick, im so clumsy in using chopstick esp for noodles and rice, except for sushi which idk why, so by using chopstick to have those food will doubled up my eating time, perhaps with this huge utensil, i can able to eat more faster even though i got a small mouth. >,< muahahaha
 thats all for today, see you soon :)
gonna cont' watching Gossip Girl now... 
HAVE YOUR DAY, muacks!

Saturday, December 31, 2011

Last but not the least for 2011♥

Harlo,here im back again. :) wanna do a short ending post before 2011 ends, but em got too limited of time.
December is always such a joyous and holiday month, but it ends very soon after year coming, wow! 2012!world end??! life still have to goes on : P

So, darlings, how was ur Xmas last week? fantastic? owh, mine was so-so~ *,* worked in pm shift on xmas eve and am shift on xmas day ain't such a good thing to me, same comes to my new year eve. :(  as i always used to celebrate this both pleasing festival, anyway, wish i could save it to my chinese new year, and i could go back hometown that time. :D blessing....

as for shopaholic, December is also such a crazy shopping month too! everything, everywhere on SALE!SALE!SALE! how can you missed that?! am i right??
few days ago before xmas, me and xinyin decided to did some shopping in Orchard, as she wanted to feel the xmas ambiance there. ya, when comes to xmas, ppl always think of orchard since there used to have spectacular decoration by the roadside and shopping mall.

here comes Clarke Quay 1st, the day before we headed to Orchard, I recommended xinyin this my favourite night-life place in Sg. if you are clubber, i bet you will like this place!

  sitting by the breezy riverside, listening to the music, is kind of enjoyment after a busy day. 
 with mai all time favourite mini skirt and sneaker recently
** mini skirt from Taiwan
** sneaker from Forever 21

okay, next station~ Orchard Road desu~
infront of ION Orchard~



 Casual outfit of the day~

i dun remember what have i bought on the day, except for some tops and mummy's bday present. guess what? : P

i was crazy buying long sleeve tops since the weather turns so windy and cool recently, and i found i have no long sleeve tops when i wanted to wear other than my sweater's collection.
so they are my new collection recently~ but after that, the weather turns sunny,wtf, looks like i got no chance to wear now~ lollll
from left #GAP #G2000 #ZARA #ESPIRIT

oh yea, and this~~
 favor too... #Garrett Popcorn
nicey ^^V

that's all for now :)
few more mins to 2012, any to-do list or wish list for the coming year?? mine? still thinking by the way :P 
so stay tuned :D
anyway, see yea next year~ 

muacks ^^

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

10 Ways to Bring Meaning into Your Life

By Elisha Goldstein, PhD

More and more it seems like life can be so hectic. It's as if we purposely overload ourselves with more things than we could possibly ever accomplish.

Sometimes as I'm going to sleep I think about all the things I need to get done and when I'm awake during the day I think about all the things that need to get done. Take a shower, make coffee, eat breakfast, brush my teeth, go to work, etc... It's almost as if at the end of the day I can truly ask myself, "where did the day go?" Enough of these and I can ask myself the same questions in weeks, months, or even years!

So when I feel like these questions are coming up, I do some brief exercises that help bring me to the present moment and remind myself that I'm living.

1. For 5 minutes: Whatever you are doing, just do it slightly slower. At work we are all given tasks to do. One time per day, for 5 minutes do that task a little bit slower. Do not do the task in slow motion, or take breaks from the task, simply do it a little bit slower. 


2. Take 5 minutes at lunch to notice what you're eating. You can actually do this at an meal, or anytime you eat. You are going to notice what your food looks like, how it smells, feels, and tastes. As you pick up your food, notice the texture of it, is it bumpy, smooth, wet? Notice what you smell. As you take it in your mouth notice how it feels in your mouth, notice the tastes that are coming out of it, how your teeth break it down. As you swallow it, notice it going down your throat. Do the same with the drink. 

3. Take 3 minutes to just sit and notice your breath. Sit in a place of your choice, could be behind your desk, or anywhere. Close your eyes. For 3 minutes simply pay attention to your breath. For these 3 minutes your breath gets your undivided attention. If you notice yourself thinking about something, even the thought "why am I doing this stupid exercise", just notice that your're thinking that and then gently bring your attention back to your breath.

4. Wash the Dishes. If you're not used to doing dishes, there will be many benefits to this one. As you begin to wash the dishes, notice the texture of the plate and the warmth of the water on your hands. Inhale and notice if there is any scent. Listen to hear the rush of the water or any other sounds that are happening around you. Not only will you be able to practice being in the moment, but many of your family and friends will be thrilled with you. 

5. Take a Bath or Shower. Preferably a bath if you have one, but even with a shower, you can take your moment in the shower or bath to feel the warmth of the water or feel how your body is immersed in the water. How does your skin feel? Do you notice any smells? Is your hair wet. Just be in the moment and notice all your senses....breathe. 

6. Make Love Slightly Slower for a few moments. As you are making love to our significant other, take a moment to purposely move slightly slower. As you do this begin to mentally feel over all parts of your body. How your skin feels when touching his/hers, how are you breathing? Are you sweating? Is there a scent in the air. Take a moment and really be there making love.

7. Smell a flower for an extra breath. This one I love. Often times I will be passing by a flower and if I remember to smell it, I take an extra inhalation to really get the full experience of the scent. You will be surprised how much that extra inhalation makes a difference in the experience.

8. Be Silly. I'm serious;). Being silly allows your creative juices to flow and your creative juices is what life is all about. Letting yourself be silly can also be very relaxing and create joyful situations that are full of meaning. 

9. Write a letter to someone close to you... telling them how much you appreciate them. This is not a new idea by any stretch yet it is always worth mentioning since it is so meaningful. A letter that that person will always cherish.

10. Remind yourself that you are a miracle. This may be the most important. How they heck did any of us get here? When we break it down to nanotechnology and quantum physics, scientists are stumped to figure out the great mystery of us physically being here and interacting and creating symbols and concepts and communicating. 

It's boggling. That's why our moments on this earth are so precious and it is a wonderful gift to attempt to cultivate those moments in life that you consider to be sacred.

You get the idea... try it out.
 have a nice day! Merry Xmas! :>

Thursday, December 15, 2011




原本庆幸,发炎的状况在开始上班的前一天就慢慢好转了,我庆幸,医生高兴,但他还是建议我进行次小型手术(incision & drainage) ,他要彻底的在清洗清洁多一次,不是紧急手术,时间随我安排,我答应了,就两星期后,好让我在工作上有所交待先。

天晓得,在忙碌上班后的第N天,我无意间发现局部发炎的状况慢慢在蔓延了,然而,鼻子上的植入体 (implant)本来就是很敏感的,也是细菌最爱的家~所以它们筑巢那儿了… 




时间将近傍晚六时,我一个人在就要关门的诊所部门,等待他们为我安排紧急手术的手续,一个人,心里既是害怕,恐慌,担心又伤心,拖着刚下班疲惫到不行的身体,坐在诊所大厅里哭得上气不接下气 。我不知道,在这时候,有谁能陪着我。








原本当晚就能出院的 ,但眼睛没办法挣开,我要求医生看看我的眼睛,足足等了两小时,护士来告诉我医生在手术室,好,我等,结果一等就是两个小时后~ 凌晨十二点半,一个助诊医生看了看说也许是太干,所以要护士帮我清洗再上药,护士小姐问,要留多一夜还是出院? 现在这么晚了,叫我怎么出院啊!

隔天一早,情况更糟,因为是白天,我眼睛更是张不开,痛得像快下了,还我哭得不得了。几个助诊医生看了情况,安排我到眼科做检查,全程我像个瞎子,眼睛都是闭着的,即使在回家路上。所以,诊断结果出来,是眼球刮伤,所谓的corneal ulcer
原因呢,就是因为院方的疏忽,不知道哪个笨蛋在我麻醉睡着后,眼睛没盖完的情况下,就把薄纱布粘在我眼睛上了,纱布吸水嘛,所以吸干了我眼睛的水,在我醒来时,又不斯文点,所以擦伤了我的眼球~ 而我不能睁开双眼,就连闭着眼睛都痛得要命。我第一次,无时无刻的向妈咪要止痛药吃,太痛苦了,像是快瞎掉,哭得走廊都听到。也因为这个疏忽我被逼住多一夜,再看了眼科,害我多花了马币MYR1000 来医眼睛!



没错,也许食物问题 ,但我又在禁口。不好意思,我和医生读的是同一个论点,所以我并没有太多的禁忌,有人说不能吃鸡蛋鸡肉,可我手术后第二天医生就安排鸡蛋给我了,因为我们相信鸡蛋高蛋白质帮助伤口痊愈。

我知道虾,苏东等海鲜有毒。所以我尽量不碰。只是天知道,我哪天喝下的那口汤尽是用虾熬的呢?我辛苦了这么久,受尽这么多痛,难道我自己不会爱惜吗?难道我不要照顾吗? 谁都不想这样的事发生,不是吗







还有他原先预算的手术费用是新币$15,000++ 相等于马币大约要近MYR 40,000。还了全数才能动手术,结果出院时,费用竟$14,000,所以把$1000 退还回来,结果呢,这$1000 并没有就这样省了,这次的手术费用就刚好$1000++。 怎么这么巧~是医生预先算到了吗?开玩笑的!


Wednesday, December 14, 2011


Owh,time flies! coming to the mid of december, and so forth, Xmas is closing , then 2011 is gonna end soon.

didn't realize that my last been here was few weeks ago, i thought my last update was only ytd story. : / crazy i know,ain't because i didn't have the sense of time, the reason that makes em in such a hectic life is the feverish condition of my nose's infection which i did mentioned on the previous post.

In addition, i have to deal with so many things in a limited time and working life is fxcking tired i should said, as what i felt is almost lifeless, cos you will be freaking tired after work, exhausted, energy-less, the only thing i wish to do is, sleeping after take bath.

yet, during last week, my time was fully booked by those annoying stuff.
my day-off, still i need to spent my time in traveled to SGH which takes 45 mins to reach there for check up. what a day-off, i still spent time in hosp what!
while i was in PM shift, i went all the way 45 mins train-traveled again just to take my work permit from Clarke Quay, then went to bank and blah blah blah stuff before attend to work in the afternoon.
the next day, AM shift, even nicer, i straight away rushed to SGH againnn after i finished work becos my implant infected.
what the enrich days!

that's all my 3 working days, and then followed by 2 weeks hospitalization leave now. : /

*why H.leave?? cos i went for a minor surgery after that, and doctor gimme 2 weeks MC,nice? no! feel superb sorry to my ward sister and stuff actually!*

worked 3 days and rest 2 weeks, the best employee ever! employer!

okay, about the story, i will explain next time.
i have pretty much in my mind which em wish to shout out!

Suppose to post up my latest new baby-stuff now, but lets left it for the coming post since now already 2:30AM :P im lil weary now *yawn*

What a meaningless post. sowwiieeee~
in order to make this post lil meaningful,i decided to share out this photo which i dun think is a good capture anyway.
#orchardroad #ion #golden xmas tree #merry christmas

#snoopyresting #sunwaygiza
pinky-cross will come back soon :) see ya. muacks! ♥